It was spring, 2004, and our passports were back, each one with a full-page Syrian visa. We had already given notice on our apartment in Vancouver, and packing and planning were in full swing. Anticipation of a five-month sojourn in Syria was running high.
The departure date was less than a month away, when I went to see my dentist about what I thought was a nasty-looking canker sore. One glance and he referred me to an Ear, Nose and Throat specialist. The E.N.T. doctor looked concerned, ripped out some of the infected tissue and said, “I will let you know in a few days.”
“It’s cancer – oral squamous cell carcinoma,” said the doctor. “We will need to run tests to determine the extent of the tumour in your mouth, and to see if it has spread to your neck or chest.”
Shock! Unbelief! Devastation! Now what?
For the life of me, I can’t understand why this test is called positive if it shows you have cancer. To me, that’s about as negative as you can get!
At 56 years old, I had been in good health, but had sadly neglected my teeth and needed more than 10 crowns. At US$125 each in Syria, we could save a lot by going there for the treatment. Not only that, it would also give us an opportunity to actually live in a foreign culture.
Besides, we had fallen in love with Syria. As soon as we stepped off the bus that had worked us through the maze of Turkish and Syrian border bureaucracy two years earlier, the men who leaned out of car and truck windows shouting, “Vil-comme to Syria!” (many Germans holiday there) set the tone for the memorable three weeks that followed.
Now, it appeared life was off in another direction . . .


Hi Bill,
I just wanted to take a minute to tell you how much I enjoyed and appreciated your story. My father is in Stage 4 Melanoma and every day is a blessing. I read about you on a fluke through the Knotty Boy website. Reading about what you and your family have gone through I felt a connection to you and your daughter because my father stood beside me as I built a unique business (like you and your daughter), a Dreadlock salon in Austin, Texas. I will share your story with my father who will probably feel a kindred relationship to you through both the experience of the disease and of having entrepreneur dreadlock daughters
I hope he will find inspiration and comfort from your experience. He is 66, lives a healthy and active lifestyle and never had any health problems until this. They are currently attempting a course of experimental chemo as a last ditch effort and the next 3-4 months are crucial. As a daughter I feel stuck on the sidelines watching my father fighting for his life and sometimes getting tired of it. I want so much to jump in the ring and stomp the cancer into oblivion. I put up a calm exterior for him, but I’m so angry about what is happening. My daughter is only 2 and has so much to learn from her grandfather.
Thanks again for sharing your experience and giving me a moment of peace and hope for a happy ending,
Liz Shannon